愛(ài)一個(gè)人是完成自我，被人愛(ài)是接納自我。這是愛(ài)的終極境界，是人性的極限高度。世間八九成人皆做不到，即便偶然抵達(dá)，也不愿坦然承認(rèn)。正因這份清醒與圓滿(mǎn)難以企及，才成為世人永恒追逐的向往。高階的愛(ài)從非本能，而是一場(chǎng)克制、修行與向內(nèi)扎根的漫長(zhǎng)覺(jué)醒。

To love is to complete oneself; to be loved is to accept oneself. It is the ultimate state of love and the limit of human nature. Most people cannot reach it, nor dare to admit it. Precisely because it is rare, it has long been the eternal yearning of humanity. True love is never instinct, but spiritual practice and inner growth.